Lesbian

This article is about homosexual women, not inhabitants of the Greek island of Lesbos

a lesbian is confused in a fish market:o:P A lesbian (lowercase L) is a homosexual woman. Lesbians have or prefer to have romantic and sexual relationships with other women.

ladys trust me get with jorden and ull go back ;)

The word "lesbian" originally referred to an inhabitant of the island of Lesbos, in ancient Greece. The term has come to have its current meaning due to the ancient Greek lyric poet Sappho, who lived on the island; some of her poems concerned love between women. Whether Sappho was herself a lesbian, in the modern meaning of the term, or simply a poet who described lesbians, is open to question; whilst she did indeed write poems about love between women, there is some dispute as to just how far to interpret her writings in this fashion. This association with Sappho led to the term sapphism being used as another term for lesbianism.

Many terms have been used to describe lesbianism over the past 200 years, such as amor lesbicus, urningism, sapphism, tribadism, and others.

The law

Explicit prohibitions on women's homosexual behavior have been markedly weaker in Western societies than on men's homosexual behavior. Lesbianism has been legal in the United Kingdom since the Victorian Era, whereas male homosexuality has not been, and at least occasionally produced a prison sentence. Jewish religious teachings condemn male, but say nothing about female homosexuality.

Reproductive and parenting rights

In some countries, the right of lesbian women to have access to assisted birth technologies such as In Vitro Fertilisation (IVF) in order to have children, has been the subject of debate: in Australia for example, the High Court rejected a Roman Catholic Church move to ban access to IVF treatments for lesbian and single women. However, the Prime Minister of Australia, John Howard had sought to amend legislation to prevent the access of these groups to IVF, raising indignation from the gay and lesbian community.

Many lesbian couples seek to have children through adoption, although this is not possible in every country.

Sexuality

Sexual activity between women is as diverse as sex between heterosexuals or sex between gay men. Like all interpersonal activity, sexual expression must be seen within the context of the relationship between the people involved. It is only within the last generation that women (at least in the western world) have found the economic power to take control of their own lives, including their romantic and sexual relationships. As the role of women change, so will how women express themselves emotionally and physically with other women.

There is a growing body of research work and writing on lesbian sex and with it much debate over the control women have over their sexual lives in a society still seen to be patriarchal, the fluidity of female sexuality, the redefinition of female sexual pleasure, and the debunking of old stereotypes (such as "lesbian bed death"). "Lesbian Bed Death" is a phrase that has been in use within the lesbian community for many decades, to describe the lack of sexual passion in a long term relationship between two women. While it is a phrase that is often used in a joking manner between lesbians (and others) there have also been sexologists using the term. Sex researcher Pepper Schwartz published findings indicating that lesbian couples have less sex than couples of any other sexual orientation. However, her findings have been criticised by many; it is argued that this can happen to any long term relationship whether heterosexual or not. Within part of the lesbian community, the phenomenon is usually rejected and is the subject of humour. Some lesbians who do accept diminishing sexual passion consider it to be an inevitable part of any long-term relationship. Many lesbian couples enjoy a fulfilling sex life.

Media depictions

Lesbian couples have been attracting attention by others, in relation to feminism, sexual relationships, marriage and parenting, and other areas.

Mainstream media

In television, the number of lesbian couples portrayed is generally less than the number of gay couples - notable lesbian couples in television include Tara Maclay and Willow Rosenberg in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Lindsay Peterson and Melanie Marcus in Queer as Folk and Dr. Kerry Weaver and Sandy Lopez in ER. Additionally, the casted pop-group t.A.T.u from Russia was quite popular in Europe in the 2000s, gaining several Top 10 hits by the assumption that they were lesbians when they, in fact, were not.

However, the trend may be changing, for example, see The L Word, which is primarily focused on the lives of a group of lesbian friends.

Pornography

Reactions of heterosexual men

It has been noted that attitudes of most men to lesbian sex and its depiction in pornography are usually tolerant, or even perceived to be desirous, in sharp contrast with widespread aversion to images of male gay sex.

One explanation for this could be that some men have the mistaken belief that lesbians are only having sex with one another because of the lack of a suitable man, and would be delighted to engage in group sex were such a man to become available; however, this is generally not the case.

Another is the absence of penises from such pornography, either clearing any viewer from any possible accusations of homoerotic tendencies or simply a result of straight men, through social conditioning, not really wanting to view another man's genitalia.

Another explanation is that the reaction stems from male sexual arousal to the presence of nude female women. This theory is given some credence by a study showing that homophobic and non-homophobic men were aroused to the same degree by lesbian imagery, suggesting that male arousal from lesbian sex may not involve higher reasoning.

Another explanation is that men find images of lesbian sex to be completely non-threatening and therefore comfortable and appealing. There is no other man to compete with for the women's attention.

Nominally positive reactions of heterosexual men to "lesbian" pornography should not be taken as evidence of acceptance of lesbians in general. Lesbians frequently suffer bashing, including rape.

Reactions of heterosexual women

Many heterosexual women also have a more positive attitude to depictions of lesbian sex than most heterosexual men have to depictions of male gay sex. It has been suggested that this is because heterosexual women are "more bi-curious" on average than heterosexual men. However, this is a controversial theory: many other heterosexual women have attitudes to lesbianism that range from mildly to extremely negative.

Related groups and movements

Feminism

In relation to feminism, and arising in relation to the Radical feminism movement, lesbian separatism became popular: groups of lesbian women coming together and living in communal societies together. Some lesbian women found this sort of society to be liberating; however others, such as Kathy Rudy, in Radical Feminism, Lesbian Separatism and Queer Theory, remark that stereotypes and hierarchies reinforcing those stereotypes developed in her experience of living in a lesbian separatist collective, which ultimately led her to leave the group.

Transgender and transsexual women

The relationship between lesbianism and transgendered and transsexual women who identify as lesbian has been turbulent, with negative attitudes prevalent in history, but this attitude has changed somewhat in more recent times.

Some lesbian groups openly welcome transgender or transsexual women, often welcoming "any member who identifies as lesbian", however a few groups still do not welcome transwomen.

Reactions to the definitions of the term "lesbian", and the restriction of lesbian events and spaces have been numerous. Some who hold a non-inclusionist attitude often make reference sometimes to strong typically second-wave feminist ideas, such as those of Mary Daly's who has described post-operative transsexual women as merely "constructed women", attribute transsexualism as a mechanism of patriarchy, or do not recognize identification as female and lesbian from a transsexual woman, and based on these views define lesbianism and defend the non-inclusion of women of transsexual or transgender background.

However, those who hold an inclusionist position (which includes both non-transgender and transgender women), maintain that the attitudes described above are inaccurate and have their grounding in fear, distrust, or that the motivations and attitudes of transgender or transsexual lesbians as not well understood, and defend the inclusion of transwomen into lesbianism and lesbian spaces. Today, many hold more inclusionist views, though non-inclusionist views are not uncommon.

One example of the divisiveness of inclusionism arose in Australia. In the early 1990s, the wider lesbian community raised money to purchase a building devoted to lesbian women and for a uniquely lesbian only space, entitled "The Lesbian Space Project". Whilst the organisation was successful in buying the building, a debate over the inclusion of transwomen polarised the lesbian community. The building was later closed and moneys moved into the "Pride Centre", a lesbian and gay community centre in Sydney.

Another very notable example amongst the transgender and transsexual communities is that of the Michigan Women's Music Festival, a well-known primarily lesbian event which was restricted to "womyn-born womyn". Camp Trans, an organization oriented towards rights of transwomen, was started as a result.

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